Ok first things first. You must have any form of firewall off to get NM (net meeting) to work correctly. To Host Net Meeting so others can access to you you must do the following:
To Open Net Meeting:find this icon usually on your desk top or in start menu
then
When this is open you will see this
then click on this and go to this folder "Program Files"
after you do that you should find a folder named "NetMeeting" Or "Net Meeting"
once you open that you should see this icon called "conf" Double click on this
It should open up the application like this
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this is open and you want others to connect to your computer you are going to do this.
once your are at point 7 you do "Call"
Then under call you should see "Host Meeting"
after you clicked on that it should bring you to a menu like this
once that is done click on "Sharing" And "File Transfer"
and once you have done that click the ok button and you well be hosting net meeting..
---------------------To Enable your Sharing Function
go to the tools which looks like this
and under the tools you will see sharing
after seeing this you should it "Share True Colors"

and x that if you wanna see it normaly other wise dont use this for less lag.after that hit share and highlight the things you want to share. (notice if you share desktop they will be able to use everything.)
Your not done yet you still need to turn it on 8)
Now hit the "Allow control"
and it will change to look like this.

Your sharing has been turned on!
---------------------After that Your caller should be calling your ip and you will see this message in the bottum right cornor.
onces this is done you will be connect with them as so like this:
To give this person control you simply right-click on there name and "Grant Control"
ok. once this is up you will see a window like this
then they have control..
------------------------------If you are joining and all of this has been done you will get this message in the middle of your screen
Then your done for the Hosting part and they can destroy or help you out on your computer and all you have to do is move the mouse or hit tab to disable there control.if you want to close or leave then hit

and hit "hang up"
or to kick the person you do this.
and hit "remove from meeting"
-This Guide is incomplete and is only done the Hosting Part....