how do i connecet to the private wow server????

theres a file called realmlist in your wow directory. simply change the set realmlist line to "set realmlist kpsden.com" to connect to our server.

if you also play retail, and want to switch back and forth, use a ; and add a completely new realmlist line.

like this:

set realmlist kpsden.com
;set realmlist us.logon.worldofwarcraft.com
set patchlist us.version.worldofwarcraft.com

then move the ; where needed to connect to each respective server. You will also want to clear your cache folder in the wow directory periodically to eliminate conflicts.